AHAVAS YISRAEL: Operation Orange Wings

Adapted from: 90 Seconds for Young Readers by Libby Lazewnik

One of the greatest—and most challenging—projects Eli Beer, founder of United Hatzalah, ever faced was helping to rescue thousands of refugees who’d fled from Ukraine.

The goal: to bring them to the homeland of every Jewish refugee. To bring them to Eretz Yisrael.

But before he could bring them home, his volunteers had to treat and feed them. Eli moved heaven and earth to get El Al to rent a plane to United Hatzalah so that they could fly in tons of medical equipment and kosher meat and chickens to Moldova for the refugees.

It was the middle of the winter, and many refugees arrived at the border freezing and starving. Once they crossed the border from Ukraine into Moldova, they found United Hatzalah volunteers waiting for them with hot food. Then a bus took them to the Agudah shul, where they stayed until they could get on a plane to Israel.

The problem was that many of the refugees had run from their homes so quickly that they forgot to bring their passports. United Hatzalah planes were landing in Iasi, Romania—but Romania would not allow the refugees to cross its border without a passport.

A top United Hatzalah staff member named Linor Attias was the one who convinced Romania to agree to let their planes land there—for a price. A high price. And only United Hatzalah planes were allowed to land there. Otherwise—because of the war—the skies were closed.

By the middle of June 2022, about four months after the war started, some seven hundred volunteers had come to and from Moldova, along with tons of food and medicine, doctors, psychologists, and many others who were part of the biggest such operation ever to take place outside of Israel.

All the fathers and husbands had been forced to stay in Ukraine and fight in the war. Mothers would bring their crying, hungry children through pouring rain, walking on the hard-packed snow as the sound of bombing filled the air. United Hatzalah volunteers wearing their bright orange vests were there to greet them with warm smiles, candy for the children, and kosher food for them all. What a kiddush Hashem!

When it came to checking whether the refugees were really Jews, volunteers would ask them if they had family in Israel. If the answer was yes, the relatives would be contacted to make sure the refugee was telling the truth.

Among the endless wave of refugees were two elderly people, a brother and sister. The brother was ninety-four and his sister was ninety. Somehow, they’d managed to make their way to the border of Moldova.

“This is the second time I’m running away,” the brother told Eli when they met at the border. “I remember being on the run from the Nazis. My mother took stale bread and soaked it in rainwater, so I’d be able to eat it. Now, all these years later, I’ve been walking for three days straight to escape the Russians…”

The United Hatzalah volunteers gave him and his sister their first hot meal in days. Then, even though the brother was afraid of flying, Eli convinced him to get on a plane and fly to safety.

Paulina, another Holocaust survivor, had run away from the Russian tanks that were rumbling down her street. One of the tanks killed her husband as he was standing in line waiting for bread and water.

When Linor Attias, a top United Hatzalah staff member heard her story, she decided to make sure that Paulina made it to Israel. She sent volunteers back to Paulina’s house to get her passport and any other papers she needed. Then Linor personally flew with her on the plane back to Israel, where Paulina could be safe at last and start a new life.

Altogether, United Hatzalah brought more than thirty-five planeloads of refugees out of the war zone and into Eretz Yisrael. For Eli, it was a matter of pikuach nefesh, saving lives.

CHIZUK: Yes, You Can

Adapted from: Living With Miracles by Rabbi Binyamin Pruzansky

This story illustrates the power of believing in another person. We have the power, through our positive influence, to help someone overcome every obstacle and reach his goal, because nothing stands in the way of a person’s will.

Years ago, Rabbi Shmuel Steinharter was a rebbi in Ohavei Torah, a kiruv yeshivah in Bnei Brak. There, American young men who were seeking a connection to their roots found a place where they could grow in Torah and avodah. In addition, beyond the walls of the yeshivah, the many talmidei chachamim and tzaddikim who lived in the city provided a rich wellspring of inspiration for the students.

One year, on Simchas Torah, the bidding for aliyos and other honors was underway. The “currency” of the bidding was not dollars or shekalim, but rather, a commitment to learn Mishnayos. This was a suitable currency for yeshivah students who were short on cash but flush with the desire to learn.

The opening honor of Atta Horeisa received an initial bid of 50 Mishnayos. Someone else called out “100!” A third dared to commit to 500. When the bidding reached 1,000 Mishnayos, the competition ground to a halt. Going once, going twice… it seemed that the bidder for 1,000 Mishnayos would win.

But then, another voice broke through. “Shishah Sidrei Mishnah,” called the young man, a fairly new baal teshuvah. He was committing himself to learn the entire six orders of Mishnah, a tall order even for an accomplished learner. The room fell silent as everyone looked at this young man with big dreams. He had clearly won the bidding, but would he be able to accomplish such a feat?

Later that day, a few people from the yeshivah brought the young man to speak to the rosh kollel of Kollel Chazon Ish, Rav Yudel Shapiro, an esteemed talmid chacham and gadol. Because these people were certain that the young man had gotten in far over his head, they asked Rav Yudel to annul his vow to free him from the obligation.

Rav Yudel looked the young man in the eye.

“Do you really want to learn all of Shishah Sidrei Mishnah?” he asked.

The young man confirmed that this was his desire.

“Do you think it’s possible for you to accomplish your goal?” the rav asked.

“I think it’s possible,” said the young man. “I’m determined to do it. I just don’t know how yet.”

“I will tell you how you can do it,” said Rav Yudel. “If you are willing to come to my home every evening to learn with me, I will help you finish the entire Shishah Sidrei Mishnah.”

The young man smiled brightly. “I’ll do it!” he said.

Rav Yudel and this talmid learned Mishnayos every night. One year later, on Simchas Torah, the young man made a monumental siyum on Shishah Sidrei Mishnah.

But the learning wasn’t the total picture of the relationship that blossomed. Rav Yudel took this idealistic baal teshuvah under his wing. He continued learning with him and supporting his growth. “And don’t worry about a shidduch,” Rav Yudel told him. “When the time comes, my wife will do everything she can to help you find the right one.” And indeed, she did. After his marriage, the young man and his wife would spend every other Shabbos at his in-laws’ home, alternating with the Shapiro home. They became part of a family that bestowed on this young couple the mesorah, middos, and hashkafos of greatness.

Our every word, expression, and action is different when we believe someone has potential. We impart the strength that helps him achieve his goals.

PARASHAH INSPIRATION: Yaakov’s Path

Adapted from: Rav Nosson Tzvi Speaks by Rebbetzin Sara Finkel and Rabbi Yehuda Heimowitz

If someone were to ask me whether I would choose life in this world or life in the next, I would answer that I choose life in Olam Haba — but when we say this, our mouths and our hearts frequently do not correspond. It is virtually impossible to choose the path leading to Olam Haba to the exclusion of all else, without desiring at least a small taste of Olam Hazeh. Therefore, while we face two diverging roads, each one leading in a different direction, it is hard for us to make a definitive choice. Instead, many of us seem to opt for life in this world as well as life in Olam Haba.
If we were given the opportunity to choose only Olam Hazeh or Olam Haba, would we actually choose the latter?

The world today abounds with material pleasures and indulgences, offering an endless array of food, clothing, and devices. When I first came to yeshivah in Eretz Yisrael, there was nothing to be had! Many homes didn’t have gas or even a refrigerator. All everyone had equally was poverty! Even in chutz la’aretz, where the economic situation was far better, people struggled to earn a living.

Under such circumstances, the choice of a glittering Olam Haba over a wearying, poverty-stricken Olam Hazeh is self-understood.

Today, we live in a world of plenty, showered as we are with both spiritual and material bounty. Everyone has a home and every device necessary for a home. In the past, someone who owned even one of these gadgets was considered wealthy. Today, anyone who doesn’t own a cell phone is regarded as practically barefoot. How, then, are we expected to choose between Olam Hazeh and Olam Haba?

Every Yid in every generation has the choice to dwell in the tent of Shem, like Yaakov, or set out into the big world to hunt game, like Eisav. Is it possible that in this generation, we no longer have to choose between the two worlds, and we can choose a third course that encompasses both?
I once heard that a person who knows how to differentiate between the ikar and tafel, the core versus its external trappings, and to seize that core has great potential to succeed in life. Even if he also acquires the tafel along the way, he will succeed, as long as his primary focus is on the ikar.
In our world today, it is virtually impossible to live without any grasp on Olam Hazeh, for even luxuries have become necessities.

“The principle of the matter,” writes the Mesillas Yesharim (Ch. 1), “is that man wasn’t created for his circumstances in Olam Hazeh, but for… Olam Haba, although his circumstances in Olam Hazeh are the means for his Olam Haba, which is his ultimate purpose.” Here, the Mesillas Yesharim expresses that the function of the bounty that we enjoy in Olam Hazeh is to enhance our avodas Hashem. Olam Hazeh, then, is the tool that enables us to attain our ultimate goal in life.

Our task is to distinguish between ikar and tafel, to appreciate our essence and role in this world — and this is the manifestation of bechirah in our generation. Do we regard limud Torah as fundamental and everything else in life as the tools and external trappings that enable us to acquire it? Or does the endless gashmiyus surrounding us constitute the focus of our lives?

This is the essence of bechirah — the choice to follow Yaakov’s path to Olam Haba or to traverse Eisav’s path as an ish yodei’a tzayid. Two people may dress identically and learn shoulder-to-shoulder in the same beis midrash; they may live in the same type of home, and their lives may follow similar courses. Yet one may be following the path of Yaakov, and the other, the path of Eisav — since the former considers Torah the ikar and views everything else merely as a means of acquiring Torah, while his friend’s aspirations revolve around Olam Hazeh, and he regards limud Torah merely as another task in life.

HALACHAH: Undercover Acquisition

Adapted from: What if… Volume 4 by Rabbi Yitzchok Zilberstein

וַיֹּאמֶר בָּא אָחִיךָ בְּמִרְמָה — — But he said, “Your brother came with cleverness” (Bereishis 27:35)

Q: Nachum is a very successful businessman who received a tip as to where he could purchase very special matzos for Pesach. Not only were the matzos baked by an expert team of bakers to ensure their kashrus for Pesach, but they were also unusually crisp and delicious. When Nachum asked the owner of the bakery how much the matzos cost per pound, the man quoted him an exceptionally high price. Nachum understood that the price had been set according to what the man assumed Nachum could afford, and Nachum refused to be the victim of extortion.

Nachum decided that he would send someone else in his place to purchase the matzos he needed. When Shmerel, one of Nachum’s workers, trudged into the bakery in his worn-out, faded suit, the owner sold him the matzos for half the price he had quoted Nachum.

The next day, Nachum wondered if he had acted properly, since had the bakery owner known that the matzos were really for Nachum, he never would have agreed to sell them at the lower price.

Rav Yitzchok Zilberstein

A: Rabbi Aharon Dovid Dunner was asked a similar question, and he responded that the wealthy man was entitled to act as he did, as is evidenced from the following halachah:

The Shulchan Aruch discusses the case of someone who wanted to buy a certain property, so he consulted one of the neighbors who owned an adjacent property. The neighbor advised him to make the purchase. After the purchase, the neighbor may claim that since he owns the adjacent property he has first rights to buy it, and the purchaser would have to sell it to him. This is despite the fact that the neighbor himself advised the purchaser to buy the property.

The Sma explains that the neighbor did not lose his right to buy the field, because he can clarify that the reason he counseled the purchaser to buy the field is because he wanted the field to be sold for a fair price. Had he attempted to buy it himself, the seller would have hiked up the price, because the field is really worth more to the neighbor than to anyone else.

Just as the neighbor is permitted to orchestrate matters so that someone else will purchase the property for a fair price and thus avoid having the seller take advantage of him, Nachum could send Shmerel to purchase the matzos at a fair price and avoid having the seller charge him excessively.

Rav Zilberstein humbly argued with the comparison. In the case of a bar metzra (the owner of an adjacent property), there is a halachic obligation to offer the property for sale to one’s neighbors before offering it for sale to others, for the same price that he would sell it to anyone else. Thus a neighbor may “send” someone else to buy it for him if he fears that the seller may try to take advantage of the situation. That halachah would not apply to the owner of the bakery, who is not obligated to sell his matzos to Nachum. Perhaps in such a case Nachum cannot send an indigent to buy the matzos in his stead.

It would seem that the answer to the question would be dependent on whether the baker is trying to take advantage of wealthy customers, in which case he is guilty of an aveirah. The Gemara in Succah relates that Shmuel would threaten the merchants who sold hadassim for Succos to lower their prices so that the mitzvah would be available to all. In such a situation, Nachum could send Shmerel to purchase the matzos on his behalf. If, however, the baker sells to wealthy people for a fair price, but he sells to poor people for a discounted price, it would be forbidden for Nachum to ask Shmerel to buy matzos for him.

TESHUVAH: Finally Here

Adapted from: Flashes of Greatness by Rabbi Shlomo Landau

One day a gentleman in his fifties walked into a baal teshuvah yeshivah in Eretz Yisrael, approached one of the rabbis, and said, “I am finally here, and I am ready. Please teach me Torah.” The rabbi welcomed him and said that he was thrilled to have the man join the yeshivah, but what did he mean when he said that he was “finally here”? In addition, it wasn’t every day that a gentleman in his fifties would suddenly decide to join a yeshivah. “Please, tell me your story,” the rabbi requested.

The gentleman asked the rabbi if they could sit down, and he shared his remarkable story.

My mother was a Holocaust survivor who lost everything and everyone in her family. Forlorn and alone, she eventually made her way to Eretz Yisrael, where she met my father and finally experienced her first feelings of happiness and belonging. After they married, they moved to Tel Aviv. Shortly thereafter, they had me, and it seemed like my mother’s life was finally beginning to get back on track. But one day, out of the blue, my father passed away. Once again, my broken mother was left alone in the world, but this time with a young child to care for. Sadly, she did not have the emotional ability to care for me properly, and she also lacked the financial resources to provide for me, so she made the difficult decision to send me to an orphanage. The nearest one was in Bnei Brak, and although she did not know it at the time, she had sent me to the Ponevezh Batei Avos under the auspices of the tireless Ponevezher Rav. 

The Ponevezher Rav

I was immediately put under the charge of a loving and caring staff, and I thrived both emotionally and spiritually. For the first few months, my mother did not come to visit me; she must have been dealing with her own grief. But several months into my stay, she traveled to Bnei Brak to visit me and was horrified when she realized that she had sent me to a religious institution.

On the spot, she informed the staff that she was taking me out, as she would never want to have her child exposed to any form of Yiddishkeit.

The orphanage staff begged and pleaded and shared how wonderfully I had been doing, but she was adamant, and that very day she brought me back to her apartment in Tel Aviv.

When the Ponevezher Rav heard what had transpired, he was devastated. He had been following my progress and knew how well I had been advancing, and he also realized how counterproductive a move back home would be for me. 

The very next day, the esteemed Ponevezher Rav traveled to Tel Aviv and knocked at our door. My mother was quite taken aback to see this saintly-looking rav on her threshold, and to her credit, she welcomed him into our small apartment and offered him a seat in our tiny kitchen. The Rav tried his hardest to convince my mother that my return to the orphanage was the best path for me and that while it was indeed a religious institution, the religion was what drove the warmth and care and high quality of the facility. My mother was unmoved and adamantly insisted that there was no way in the world that I was going back. 

The Ponevezher Rav was crestfallen. And then he did something that I will never ever forget for as long as I live. He put his head down on the kitchen table and began to sob uncontrollably. For ten long minutes the Rav wept unabashedly, his entire being shaking from his deep sadness. After ten minutes, he wiped his eyes, straightened his hat and frock, and calmly and politely walked out the front door.

“For close to fifty years, those tears and those sobs have never left me, and they have accompanied me at every step of my life. I always knew in my heart of hearts that those tears would one day lead me back to everything that the Ponevezher Rav and the Batei Avos stood for.” The man concluded, “My journey has been long and complicated, but I am finally ready to come back home!”

CHESSED INSPIRATION: Winning by a Landslide

Adapted from: Flashes of Greatness by Rabbi Shlomo Landau

One of the most enjoyable and amazing places for a child and teen is Camp Agudah, lovingly known as “Ruach Country,” located in Ferndale, New York. With Hashem’s help, that camp has grown exponentially, and there is a long waiting list to get in. I was privileged to be at the camp during a particularly remarkable summer.

One of the most memorable camp experiences is the seventh-grade Niagara trip. It is a twenty-four-hour whirlwind of excitement, entertainment, and inspiration. It includes a water park, Niagara Falls attractions, davening outdoors, a kumzitz, a trampoline park, and so much more. Upon their return to camp, the kids eventually drift into a deep sleep with smiles on their faces. 

In general, the camp closes registration early in the season and, sadly, has to turn away many aspiring campers who would have loved to be a part of the Agudah summer magic. 

One summer, well after registration had closed, the camp was able to open five additional slots in the seventh-grade division. The camp reached out to five lucky kids on the waiting list and offered them a coveted spot. There was, however, one caveat. They would not be able to join the Niagara trip. The logic was simple: The camp traveled to Niagara on coach buses, which were incredibly costly. Adding five additional campers to the trip would require the camp to charter an additional bus, an expense of thousands of dollars. 

The camp communicated this detail to each of the five campers, and they arrived at camp with the full understanding and agreement that they would be part of the entire amazing Agudah experience sans the Niagara trip. The camp also asked these campers not to talk about this detail, as it would surely not lead to a productive conversation. 

A few days before the Niagara trip, the head staff decided to break out a seventh-grade-exclusive one-day Olympics-style competition. On a whim, one of the head staff members thought of a “cute” breakout idea. He gathered the entire seventh-grade division into the beis medrash and publicly shared that five anonymous boys would not be joining the Niagara trip due to the prohibitive cost of chartering an additional coach bus. He then proposed the following potential solution. He explained that while coach buses definitely were the more comfortable way to go, as they had air conditioning, reclining seats, bathrooms, etc., there was a much more cost-efficient way to travel, and that was via school buses. He added that he had done the math and that if the camp took school buses for the full trip, including the six-hour drive each way, then the cost of the additional bus would be similar to the usual cost of transportation, and it would afford these five boys the opportunity to be part of the fabulous trip. 

However, he added that he did not feel that it was right for him to make a unilateral decision to switch to school buses as, in truth, it would impact the comfort level of the campers in a very real way. Instead, he would hand out ballots to every seventh-grade camper and they would decide on the mode of transportation. All they had to do was write either “coach bus” or “school bus” on the blank ballots. Choosing “coach bus” would indicate that they had elected to put their personal comfort, which they were certainly entitled to do, over the ability for their friends to be a part of the trip. The words “school bus” would signal that they were willing to put their friends’ needs before their own. The majority would decide! 

Immediately, staff members circulated through the room, handing out blank ballots and pencils to each camper. The tension in the room was palpable as each camper internally debated their comfort versus their friends’ feelings. Finally, the ballots were all completed, and the votes were quickly tallied.

The outcome was staggering! Over 100 of the 145 boys had written the two beautiful words: school bus! Over two-thirds of these remarkable young campers had made a clear and conscious decision to put their friends’ feelings before their personal comfort!

I remember approaching the various head staff members in a very emotional state and saying to them, “We should probably just stop everything and take this unique opportunity to daven to Hashem for all those things that we really need.” I shared that we had just been privy to a special example of the deep beauty of ahavas chinam, and that the merit created by these beautiful young Jewish souls surely had the power to redeem and to rectify!

TESHUVAH INSPIRATION: The Greatest Gift by Rabbi David Ashear

Adapted from: Living Emunah on Yamim Noraim by Rabbi David Ashear

Sometimes people wish they could turn back the clock and do certain things differently. With teshuvah, Hashem allows us to change the past. A person who spent the entire year ignoring certain mitzvos and doing different aveiros can correct it all with a few moments of teshuvah. Whatever he has done can be completely erased. And if a person comes to realize the greatness of Hashem and how much He does for him, and therefore regrets his sins, that’s called teshuvah out of love, and transforms the sins into mitzvos.

During the Aseres Yemei Teshuvah, our teshuvah is easily accepted. At the time we need it most, while our judgment is hanging in the balance, Hashem makes it the easiest to accomplish. At the time of judgment, a person can eradicate all his crimes and make the judgment the most favorable possible. It is very simple: All the person must do is admit what he did wrong, regret it, and accept to improve going forward. One should never feel that what he did is beyond teshuvah. Hashem specifically took us to be His nation while we were on the forty-ninth level of tumah. The Jewish People at that time were on the lowest level possible, and just seven weeks later they were as close to Hashem as possible.

Regarding teshuvah, the Rambam writes (Hilchos Teshuvah 7:6) that whereas before teshuvah the person was very distant from Hashem, after teshuvah he is beloved, desirable, close, and dear to Hashem. Chazal (Berachos 34b) say: b’makom shebaalei teshuvah omdim ein tzadikim gemurim yecholim laamod. The Kedushas Levi writes in Parashas Shemini explaining this Chazal that Hashem derives more pleasure from a sinner who did teshuvah than from a completely righteous individual. The reason he says this is because the baal teshuvah had to fight off his strong evil inclination to stop his wrongdoings. It is so special to Hashem when we fight the yetzer hara to do His will.

The Kedushas Levi writes there that if we contemplate the fact that we are so insignificant in comparison to Hashem, yet we can bring Him pleasure with our avodah, that should ignite our hearts to be filled with joy and excitement to serve Him. We can’t imagine how much He enjoys every little thing we do, and therefore, we shouldn’t underestimate it.

Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein told of a man who would always come to shul about seven minutes late, no matter what time the minyan started. If it was a 7:00 minyan, he would get there at 7:07. If it was an 8:00 minyan, 8:07. One day, the rabbi asked him about it and the man said, “What’s the big deal? A few minutes here, a few minutes there, the main thing is that I come.”

Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein

This practice continued for quite some time until one day this man walked in exactly on time. The rabbi asked him what changed. He said that Hashem taught him a very powerful lesson.

He explained that the day before, one of his warehouses caught fire. He was there at the time. He called the fire department and waited anxiously for help to arrive. Every minute that went by, another part of his warehouse was consumed in flames. By the time the firefighters finally got there, they were only able to salvage a very small section.

“What took you so long?” he demanded.

“We were only delayed a few minutes,” one of the firefighters replied defensively. “The main thing is that we got here. What’s a few minutes, anyway?”

Those words struck him like a lightning bolt. They were the same words he used when telling the rabbi about coming to shul late. He realized the value of every minute and accepted upon himself, going forward, to be on time to shul.

Hashem has nachas from everything we do in the spiritual realms. Every second is valuable. If we haven’t performed as well as we are capable of until now, we can easily do teshuvah, erase the past, and start afresh.

TESHUVAH INSPIRATION: Slow and Steady by Rabbi Nosson Muller

Adapted from: Steps to the Throne by Rabbi Nosson Muller

A man inspired to do teshuvah, as so many of us are on Erev Rosh Hashanah, aspires to immediate perfection. He sets lofty goals in every area of Jewish life, and promises himself that at this time next year, his slate will be impeccably clean.

The baalei mussar advised us against such an approach. It is impossible to fix everything overnight. Jumping too high and too fast will only lead to failure and frustration. Instead, they recommend a more measured process of teshuvah.

Make smaller resolutions, but make them ironclad. Setting realistically attainable goals gives a person a chance to actually follow through. One concrete step forward will lead to another.
Climbing the ladder rung by rung turns inspiration into reality.

The sefer Sass B’imrasecha illustrates the benefit of a gradual approach to teshuvah with a humorous parable.

Yankel was a simpleton, and to pass the long winter nights, the residents of his town would play a game with his mind.

Everyone took a seat around the table, with Yankel at the head. A row of bills was laid out — hundreds, fifties, twenties, and tens. Alongside the bills, they placed a shiny silver half-dollar coin.

“Choose one, dear Yankel,” the men said with glee. “Whichever you take is yours to keep.”

To everyone’s great amusement, he picked the shiny coin, night after night.

After a few weeks, someone called Yankel over to the side.

“I know you aren’t the world’s brightest fellow,” the man said, “but at this point, even you should realize what’s happening here. Can’t you see that everyone is laughing at you, that the choice you keep making is the wrong one to make?”

“I’m not as big a fool as you think,” Yankel replied with a smile. “Let me ask you a question, my friend. If I choose the hundred dollar bill, will there be a game the next night? Of course not! The men would never play with me again! Let the men have their fun, but every night, I get to add another half-dollar to my growing stash!”

Moving too fast at the outset of teshuvah is like choosing that hundred-dollar bill. Alarm bells sound, and the yetzer hara immediately enters the fray. He will do everything he possibly can to stop the inspired Jew in his tracks.

Go slowly!

It will allow your progress to fly under the radar. Your evil inclination will let you stay in the game, and every day, another half-dollar will be added to your growing pile.

Eventually, your net gains will far outweigh the value of a solitary one-hundred-dollar bill.

But there is a caveat.

A person who is impure is forbidden to enter the Beis HaMikdash. What if such a man sticks his finger into the airspace of the Temple courtyard while his body remains outside? Has he transgressed this commandment?

In Talmudical terms, this is called bi’ah b’miktzas, partial entry, and is the subject of extensive discussion as to whether it is forbidden. To avoid possibly transgressing this prohibition, many have the custom to refrain from placing their hands in the gaps between the stones of the Kosel HaMaaravi.

However, the Rebbe of Lublin, in his sefer Toras Chessed, disagrees with this custom. He writes that although partially entering a doorway is indeed forbidden, that is because a door’s intended use is to allow people to enter the area it opens into. Just standing in the doorway itself is enough to be considered as if they have already arrived.

The Lubliner Rav

A small gap, though, leads to nowhere. Merely placing a hand inside the tiny gap in the wall doesn’t reflect entry into the room behind it at all. The man remains entirely outside, and the law of partial entry does not apply.

A powerful message lies in this halachic distinction of the Lubliner Rebbe, says R’ Shaul Alter.

Everyone understands that complete repentance is not achieved overnight. It is a long journey, and begins with small and incremental improvements. However, this reality cannot change the overall goal.

If we are satisfied with just our small initial repairs, without any intention of continuing on as we grow, our spiritual location won’t change. When a partial entry is made without the intention of eventually going inside, we remain standing in the same place we were standing before. It will not be considered an entrance at all!

When a Jew undertakes small steps of teshuvah, he has partially entered the holy place he truly wishes to be. When the steps are taken with the goal of an eventual full entry in mind, it is immediately considered as if he has already arrived.

SELICHOS INSPIRATION: A Fitting Change by Rabbi Nosson Muller

Adapted from: Steps to the Throne by Rabbi Nosson Muller

The Chiddushei HaRim’s very first address upon assuming leadership took place during the days of Selichos, a week before Rosh Hashanah. He illustrated a Jew’s obligation during this exalted time of year with a powerful parable.

When someone moves to a new home, he said, he doesn’t bring everything from his previous dwelling with him. Much of the old stuff is disposed of. His furniture has taken a beating over the years. They won’t fit with the fresh new look. He carefully chooses what to take along and what to throw in the trash.

When we move from one year to the next, we should view the transition as if we are changing our residence. In twelve months, it is natural for junk to accumulate. As we move on and start over, we should take a hard look at our stuff and decide what is worth holding onto, and what not.

Moving day is just a week away. Sift through your possessions. Be ready to enter your beautiful new home!

The Dubno Maggid brings a similar parable, with a more humorous bent. He tells of the simple villager in the big city, who decides to be fitted for a beautiful new suit at the best tailor in town.
When it is ready, he comes to try it on, and is unhappy with the finished product.

“You aren’t that great at your job, after all,” he says to the tailor. “Everyone told me to come specifically here, but after all the measurements you made me stand for, you can’t make a suit that properly fits. What a waste of money and time!”

“You really aren’t used to getting new clothes, are you,” responded the amused craftsman. “I know what I am doing. Your suit is perfectly made, and it fits perfectly. However, you didn’t remove your old and bulky clothing before you put it on. Of course it is uncomfortable and tight!”

Before Rosh Hashanah, every Jew must first shed his “old outfit.” It is torn, soiled, and just takes up space. Without taking it off, the beautiful new suit waiting for you will make for a ridiculously odd look.

It won’t fit!

My rebbi, the Novominsker Rebbe, used to liken this idea to a diamond placed in a setting filled with particles of dirt. As beautiful as the diamond is, it won’t fit into its setting.

If you don’t properly clean out the crevices of your neshamah with teshuvah, the diamonds you insert with your Torah, tefillah, and avodas Hashem will never settle correctly in place.

The Novominsker Rebbe

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With tefillah playing such a central role during the days of Selichos and the entire Yomim Noraim, prayer is something that should be analyzed carefully during this time of year.

For a believing Jew, the point of tefillah raises a foundational question. If we are supposed to have something, if we have earned it, Hashem gives it to us. That is unquestionable!

If we aren’t, will our prayer change Hashem’s mind? He knows what is coming to us better than we ever will. If we deserved what we are asking for, would we not have already received it?

What exactly are we doing when we stand before Him and beseech? What is its purpose?

This fundamental question has been raised by countless commentators. The answer of the Sefer HaIkkarim is foundational as to how every Jew must approach tefillah. Davening, he says, does not change Hashem’s mind. Of course not. It changes us!

There is a submission inherent in prayer. When one prays properly, he grows in his understanding of servitude to Hashem. A renewed awareness that he lives completely under His benevolent control makes him an entirely different kind of person.

Earnest prayer is guaranteed to produce a changed man. Before we davened, we were indeed undeserving. But now we have davened and now we have changed! The situation is different because we are different!

With the very act of prayer, the Jew reaches new levels and earns merits previously beyond his reach.

PARASHAH INSPIRATION: Do Not Despair by Rabbi Yissocher Frand

Adapted from: Rabbi Frand on the Parashah

אַתֶּם נִצָּבִים הַיּוֹם כֻּלְּכֶם — You are all standing here today. (Devarim 29:9)

Immediately after enumerating the long litany of ninety-eight curses they would face if they disobeyed Hashem, Moshe called together the Jewish people and said, “You are all standing here today.” What is the significance of this sequence of events?

The Midrash, quoted by Rashi, explains that when the Jewish people heard the curses they turned green. “Who can withstand all these curses?” they moaned despondently. “What will become of us?”
Therefore, Moshe called them together to calm them down. “Don’t be so worried,” he said. “You are all standing here today. After forty turbulent years in the desert, after angering Hashem so many times — with the Golden Calf, the Meraglim, the complainers — you are still here today. Hashem has not destroyed you. So you see, you do not need to despair.”

The commentators are puzzled. Moshe seems to be taking the wind out of his own sails. First, he read off all the horrible curses to scare the Jewish people into obedience, to put “the fear of the Lord” into them. The threat of the curses accomplished their purpose. The people were terrified. Then, all of sudden, he relented and told them that it’s not so bad. They don’t have to be so terrified. Wasn’t he defeating his whole purpose by taking the sting out of the Tochachah?

Rabbi Yissocher Frand

The answer is that there is a vast difference between healthy fear and hopelessness. It is a good thing to be realistically apprehensive about the future. It is unhealthy to live in a fool’s paradise, believing you can do as you please without suffering any consequences. But hopelessness is destructive. It demoralizes, debilitates and reduces a person to a bowl of quaking jelly.

Moshe saw that the Jewish people had gone beyond fear when they heard the curses. They lost hope and threw in the towel. Therefore, he had to calm them down until they recovered their hope and all they felt was a healthy fear.

Our Sages tell us (Bava Metzia 59a) that after the destruction of the Temple “all the gates of prayer were closed, except for the Gates of Tears.” The Gates of Tears are the channel of last resort for prayers, and they are never closed.

But if they are never closed, asks Reb Bunim of Peshis’cha, why is there a need for gates at all? Why not remove the gates and leave the entranceway wide open?

There are some tears that do not get through, says Reb Bunim of Peshis’cha. The gates screen out tears that don’t sincerely cry out to Hashem for help; tears that simply express despair and hopelessness. Yet if a person in a state of helplessness then turns to Hashem as his sole hope, wringing out the perspiration of his heart and soul and sending his hope-laden tears heavenward, there are no barriers in Heaven to a prayer of this sort. It travels directly to the Heavenly Throne.

The Izhbitzer Rebbe explains that this is the reason why all Jews are called Yehudim, specifically after Yehuda. Because when the brothers stood accused of theft before Yosef in Egypt, the Torah tells us that Yehudah “stepped up” to argue in their defense. When all seemed to be lost, when faced with the overwhelming weight of evidence against them, Yehudah never gave up hope. That is the definition of a Jew, a person who knows that the Almighty will never abandon him. A person who never gives up hope.